The soul determines in which year they are born, not the parents.
Women often inquire about their future children, and I frequently connect with the soul eagerly awaiting its rebirth on Earth. The soul shares its reasons for choosing to be born, its intended lessons and achievements, and its potential past-life connections with the parents and relatives.
Years later, I sometimes have the joy of giving a reading to a young man or woman with whom I had already connected before their birth.
A young girl in her early twenties brought the notes her mother had made twenty-five years ago during a reading with me. They included the prediction about the birth of her daughter—the young woman sitting in the flesh across from me. During the psychic reading with her mother many years ago, her soul told me she would be born within three years. A couple of years after her birth, her younger brother (her brother, who is now nineteen years old) would be born.
The notes described her appearance, personality, talents, and soul mission. She also spoke about meeting other spirits before they all began a new life on Earth and how they made arrangements to meet in this life with the approval of higher energies like their oversouls and spirit guides. She also talked about how every relationship is eternal.
When we are born, we all start with a blank slate.
As the young woman sat before me, she said she felt sorry for not having a memory of talking to me as a soul long before she was born. She said, "It looks like I had access to information I do not have access to now." She also thought she was so much wiser in her mother's notes.
When we are born, we all start with a blank slate. Everything we know as a soul—an incredible amount of information—has faded far into the background but never disappears.
One of our soul's missions is to remember who we really are during our life here on Earth. When our mind is quiet, meditating or walking in nature, knowledge often comes to the fore. We suddenly find the solution to a problem or feel what our next logical step should be.
When we put our thoughts aside and allow our Higher Self, intuition, and team of spirit guides to communicate, we receive answers and clarity.
Do something that will ease your mind when you notice you are overthinking things. You can recognize overthinking (when your brain is in charge) when you feel drained, stuck, and clueless. Your head rules your heart, and you must find the balance between your head and heart. We can find all the answers within ourselves. These words may sound like a cliché, but they are true nonetheless.
A soul decides when they are born, not the parents
I want to share what my guides often explain to women who desperately want to become mothers and run out of patience. I am a mother myself, and I understand that an unfulfilled desire to have children is very challenging, to say the least. It can cause grief and frustration when other women seem to get pregnant with ease.
At times, women may start to blame their bodies, wondering if something is wrong with them. When there's no medical issue, and I see children in their future, it's often a matter of patience. The process of conception can be a test of patience, but it's important to remember that impatience doesn't speed up the process.
A baby, a soul, decides in which year they are born. The birth date and year are not random. The new soul and a cluster of other souls come to Earth simultaneously. They each have a soul mission for themselves and together as a group. Many people the baby will meet in life are pre-determined before birth, just like the timeline and how and where.
The parents can try to get pregnant, but if this is earlier than the baby's chosen time frame, the mother will not get pregnant. You did the same, dear reader. You decided your time frame.
A baby is born in sync with other souls, not when the parents determine the time frame, for they have no clue about their baby's life path. Parents sometimes try for a long time to get pregnant artificially without success. Causing grief and disappointment.
Then, suddenly, entirely unexpectedly, the woman becomes pregnant naturally. Coincidence? No, the time has come when the baby wants to be born.
Barbara x